Frequently Asked Questions

  • It's a great question, and the answer depends on your specific situation. While a will is a powerful tool, a trust offers additional benefits that a will doesn't, particularly when it comes to avoiding probate, protecting privacy, and managing assets.

    What a Will Does ✍️

    A will is a legal document that outlines your wishes for how your property should be distributed after you die. It allows you to name an executor to manage your estate and appoint a guardian for minor children. A will is a foundational piece of any estate plan, but it generally must go through the probate process.

    What a Trust Does 🛡️

    A trust is a legal arrangement where you transfer your assets (like your home, investments, and bank accounts) to a trustee who manages them for your beneficiaries. The most common type is a revocable living trust, which you control during your lifetime.

    The key advantages of a trust are:

    • Avoids Probate: Assets held in a trust bypass the probate court, which can be a time-consuming and expensive public process. This allows for a much quicker and private distribution of assets to your beneficiaries.

    • Privacy: Unlike a will, which becomes a public record during probate, the details of a trust remain private.

    • Incapacity Planning: A trust can easily designate a successor trustee to manage your financial affairs if you become incapacitated, without the need for a separate power of attorney.

    • Asset Protection: Certain types of trusts can provide a layer of asset protection from creditors or lawsuits.

    • Control: A trust allows you to set specific conditions on how and when beneficiaries receive their inheritance (e.g., they receive a portion at age 25 and the rest at age 30).

    So, Do You Need a Trust? ⚖️

    A will might be enough if you have a relatively simple financial situation, own few assets, and are not concerned about privacy or the time/cost of probate. However, a trust is generally a better option if you:

    • Own real estate that is worth more than $750K in Califronia.

    • Are concerned about your privacy.

    • Want to ensure your family avoids the delays and costs of probate.

    • Want to provide specific instructions for how and when your heirs receive their inheritance.

    Ultimately, it's best to consult with an estate planning attorney to determine which solution is right for you. They can help you weigh the pros and cons based on your unique circumstances.

  • If you die without an estate plan in California, you are considered to have died "intestate." This means the state's intestate succession laws will dictate how your assets are distributed, and a court will manage the process. This can lead to outcomes you may not have wanted and creates additional burdens for your loved ones.

    The Process: Probate and the State's Rules 🏛️

    • Probate: Your estate will be subject to a public, often lengthy, and costly legal process called probate. A court will appoint an administrator to handle your estate, which can take months, or even years, to resolve.

    • Intestate Succession: California law has a strict hierarchy for who inherits your property. This order of inheritance is based on legal relationships, not on your personal relationships or wishes.

    How Your Property is Divided ⚖️

    The division of your property depends on your marital status and surviving relatives.

    If You Are Married 💍

    Your spouse generally inherits all of your "community property" (assets acquired during the marriage). Your "separate property" (assets owned before the marriage or received as a gift/inheritance) is divided based on who else survives you:

    • Spouse and one child: The spouse gets all community property and half of the separate property. Your child gets the other half of the separate property.

    • Spouse and two or more children: The spouse gets all community property and one-third of the separate property. Your children split the remaining two-thirds of the separate property.

    • Spouse and no children (but with surviving parents or siblings): The spouse gets all community property and half of the separate property. Your parents or siblings get the other half of the separate property.

    • Spouse and no children, parents, or siblings: The spouse inherits everything.

    If You Are Single 🧑‍🦱

    Without a will, your property is distributed to your relatives in the following order:

    • Children: All of your property is divided equally among your children.

    • Parents: If you have no children, your parents inherit everything.

    • Siblings: If you have no children or parents, your siblings inherit everything.

    • More distant relatives: If there are no siblings, the law looks to grandparents, aunts, uncles, and cousins.

    • The State: If no living relatives can be found, your property will go to the state of California.

    The Consequences of Not Having a Plan 📉

    • Lack of Control: The state's distribution plan may not align with your wishes. For example, a close friend or a charity you care about would receive nothing.

    • Family Conflict: Without clear instructions, family members may disagree on who should receive what, leading to emotional stress and expensive legal battles.

    • Incapacity Planning: Intestacy laws only apply after you die. Without an estate plan, a court would have to appoint a conservator to manage your finances and make medical decisions if you become incapacitated, which may not be the person you would have chosen.

    Certain assets, such as life insurance proceeds, retirement accounts with named beneficiaries, or property held in a trust, bypass this process and go directly to the named beneficiaries. However, all other assets will be subject to the rules above.

  • Probate in California can be a costly, time-consuming, and public process. Fortunately, there are several effective strategies to help you and your loved ones avoid it. Here are the most common methods:

    1. Revocable Living Trust

    This is the most comprehensive and popular way to avoid probate in California.

    • How it works: You create a legal document called a trust and transfer ownership of your assets (e.g., your home, bank accounts, and investments) into the trust. You act as the trustee, maintaining full control over your property while you are alive. The trust document names a successor trustee who will manage and distribute the assets according to your instructions after you pass away, all without court involvement.

    • Benefits: It bypasses probate for all assets placed in the trust, provides privacy, allows for seamless management of your finances if you become incapacitated, and gives you ultimate control over how and when your beneficiaries receive their inheritance.

    2. Transfer-on-Death (TOD) Deeds

    California law allows you to transfer residential real estate to a beneficiary with a special deed.

    • How it works: You sign and record a Revocable Transfer-on-Death (TOD) deed with your county recorder's office. This deed names a beneficiary who will inherit the property upon your death. The deed has no effect during your lifetime, so you retain full ownership and can sell or revoke it at any time.

    • Benefits: This is a simple, inexpensive way to transfer a single piece of residential property without probate.

    • Important Considerations: TOD deeds have some limitations. For example, they don't allow for a contingent beneficiary (if the primary one dies before you), and they may not provide creditor protection. They also do not provide a mechanism to name a custodian for a minor beneficiary, which a trust can.

    3. Payable-on-Death (POD) and Transfer-on-Death (TOD) Designations

    These are simple ways to keep specific financial accounts out of probate.

    • How they work: You can add a POD designation to bank accounts (checking, savings, CDs) or a TOD registration to brokerage and investment accounts. This names a beneficiary who will inherit the funds or securities directly upon your death, simply by presenting a death certificate and identification to the financial institution.

    • Benefits: This is a free and easy way to transfer assets in a single account.

    • Important Considerations: This only works for the specific account you've designated and does not address all of your assets.

    4. Joint Tenancy and Community Property with Right of Survivorship

    If you own property with another person, this method allows the property to automatically pass to the surviving owner.

    • How it works: When one joint tenant dies, their share of the property automatically passes to the surviving joint tenant(s) by law, without the need for probate. For married couples, holding property as "community property with right of survivorship" offers a similar benefit while also providing favorable tax treatment.

    • Benefits: The transfer is automatic and simple, often just requiring the surviving owner to record the death certificate.

    • Important Considerations: This strategy has potential downsides. For example, a joint tenant can sell their share without the other's consent, and you lose the ability to pass your share to someone in your will. Adding a non-spouse to your deed could also trigger gift tax issues.

    5. Small Estate Affidavit

    If the total value of your estate is small enough, your heirs can use a simplified process to transfer property without full probate.

    • How it works: In California, if your total estate value is below a certain threshold (which changes periodically), your beneficiaries can file a small estate affidavit with the court. This allows them to transfer property without a formal probate proceeding.

    • Benefits: This is a good option for people with very few assets.

    • Important Considerations: The monetary threshold is relatively low and excludes property held in a trust or joint tenancy.

    While a will is an essential part of an estate plan, it does not avoid probate. For most people with significant assets, especially real estate, a revocable living trust is the most effective and comprehensive tool to avoid probate and ensure your wishes are carried out smoothly and privately.

  • Asset Distribution 💰

    Without a will, state law dictates who inherits your assets, which may not align with your intentions. An estate plan, typically a will or a revocable trust, allows you to name specific beneficiaries, such as nieces, nephews, close friends, or a charity. It prevents your property from going through the lengthy and public probate process and possibly to distant relatives you barely know.

    Incapacity Planning 🤕

    An estate plan isn't just about what happens after you pass away; it's also about protecting you while you're still alive. A Durable Power of Attorney for finances lets you appoint a trusted individual to handle your financial matters if you become unable to. Similarly, an Advance Healthcare Directive (also known as a living will) lets you name a healthcare agent to make medical decisions on your behalf and outlines your wishes regarding end-of-life care.

    Avoiding Family Conflict 👨‍👩‍👧‍👦

    Having a clear, legally-binding plan can prevent disputes among family members. Without an estate plan, your family could be left to guess what you would have wanted, which can lead to disagreements and emotional stress during an already difficult time.

    Example Scenario

    Imagine Sarah, a single woman with no kids, wants to leave her assets to her best friend, Alex, and her favorite charity. Without an estate plan, state laws would likely distribute her property to her estranged parents or other relatives. With a simple will and a Durable Power of Attorney, she can ensure:

    • Alex inherits her home and savings.

    • Her favorite charity receives a portion of her estate.

    • She appoints Alex to manage her finances and healthcare decisions if she ever becomes unable to do so herself.

  • You should review your estate plan regularly to ensure it accurately reflects your current life, wishes, and the law. A "set it and forget it" approach can lead to unintended consequences, as your family situation, assets, and even tax laws can change over time.

    When to Update Your Estate Plan

    While there's no single rule for everyone, experts generally recommend a comprehensive review every three to five years, or immediately after a significant life event. These events are often the most critical triggers for an update and include:

    • Changes in Family Status: Getting married or divorced, the birth or adoption of a child, or the death of a beneficiary, executor, or guardian.

    • Major Changes in Assets: Buying or selling a home, acquiring a business, or a significant change in your financial situation (e.g., a large inheritance or a significant loss).

    • Relocation: Moving to another state can affect the validity and effectiveness of your estate plan, as state laws vary.

    • Changes in the Law: Tax laws and other regulations can change, which may require adjustments to your plan to remain effective and minimize taxes.

    • Changes in Personal Wishes: You may simply change your mind about who you want to be your executor or who should inherit your assets.

    Our Approach to Keeping Your Plan Current

    At DeCosimo Law, we believe in proactive maintenance to ensure your plan always works as intended. We offer:

    • A 3-year plan review for every client to ensure your documents still align with your goals and are legally sound.

    • Yearly plan reviews for our members to provide ongoing peace of mind and address any changes in your life or the law as they happen.

    These regular reviews are a fundamental part of our commitment to you and your family, helping to prevent the very issues an estate plan is designed to solve.

  • This is an excellent and common question. The core difference between a revocable and an irrevocable trust is the degree of control you, as the creator of the trust (the "grantor"), have over the assets once they are in the trust.

    Revocable Trust (aka Living Trust) 🤝

    • Flexibility: As the name suggests, a revocable trust is fully flexible. You can modify, amend, or even completely revoke it at any time, as long as you are alive and of sound mind. This means you can add or remove assets, change beneficiaries, or name a new successor trustee without any legal difficulty.

    • Control: You typically serve as your own trustee, so you retain complete control over all assets in the trust. You can buy, sell, or manage the property just as you did before creating the trust.

    • Primary Purpose: The main goal of a revocable trust is to avoid probate. When you die, the trust becomes irrevocable, and the successor trustee you named can distribute your assets privately and efficiently, without court oversight. It also allows for seamless management of your assets if you become incapacitated.

    • Taxes and Asset Protection: Assets in a revocable trust are still considered part of your estate for tax purposes and are not protected from creditors or lawsuits.

    Irrevocable Trust 🔒

    • Finality: An irrevocable trust is permanent. Once the trust is created and funded, you generally cannot change its terms, remove assets, or terminate the trust without the consent of the beneficiaries and/or a court order. You give up control of the assets to a trustee (who is not you).

    • Primary Purpose: An irrevocable trust is a more advanced estate planning tool typically used for specific, "purpose-driven" goals, which include:

      • Asset Protection: Because the assets are no longer legally "yours," they are generally protected from your creditors and legal judgments.

      • Estate Tax Minimization: Assets placed in an irrevocable trust are removed from your taxable estate, which can be a significant benefit for individuals with a high net worth.

      • Medicaid Planning: Certain irrevocable trusts can be used to help qualify for government benefits like Medicaid by reducing the value of your countable assets.

    Choosing between a revocable and irrevocable trust depends entirely on your personal and financial situation. For most people, a revocable living trust is the foundational piece of their estate plan, offering flexibility and probate avoidance. An irrevocable trust is typically considered when there are specific asset protection or tax planning needs. Consulting with an experienced estate planning attorney is essential to determine which type of trust is right for you.

  • Yes, you absolutely can. In fact, for many people, naming a non-family member as an executor or trustee is an excellent choice. The key legal requirement in California for both roles is that the individual is an adult (at least 18 years old) and of sound mind.

    While many people naturally choose a spouse, adult child, or other close relative, there are often compelling reasons to look outside the family.

    Reasons to Choose a Non-Family Member

    1. Impartiality: An executor or trustee has a fiduciary duty to act in the best interests of all beneficiaries and treat them impartially. Family members, particularly those who are also beneficiaries, can struggle to remain neutral, leading to conflicts and disputes. A trusted friend or professional can make decisions without emotional bias.

    2. Expertise: Administering an estate or trust is a complex job that can involve legal, financial, and accounting responsibilities. A non-family member with relevant experience—such as an accountant, attorney, or financial advisor—may be better equipped to handle these tasks efficiently and accurately.

    3. Time and Availability: Settling an estate can be a time-consuming process, often taking a year or more. Many family members may not have the time, energy, or proximity to manage these duties on top of their own jobs and personal lives.

    4. Avoiding Burden: You may not want to place the emotional and administrative burden on a loved one who is already grieving. Naming a neutral, third party allows your family to focus on their emotional well-being.

    Who Are Common Non-Family Choices?

    • A Trusted Friend: A friend who is responsible, organized, and understands your wishes can be a great choice. It's crucial to have a candid conversation with them first to ensure they are willing and able to take on the role.

    • A Professional Fiduciary: These are licensed professionals—such as a private fiduciary, a trust company, or a professional from a bank's trust department—who specialize in managing estates and trusts. They bring expertise, experience, and complete impartiality to the role. This is often the best choice for complex or high-value estates.

    • Your Attorney: An estate planning attorney who is already familiar with your plan can also serve as a professional executor or trustee.

    What to Consider When Making Your Choice

    Regardless of who you choose—family or non-family—it's vital to consider the following:

    • Trustworthiness: This person will have control over your assets. Trust is the most important factor.

    • Willingness: Ask your chosen person if they are willing to serve. The role can be demanding, and they have the legal right to decline the appointment.

    • Successor: Always name at least one backup or successor executor or trustee in case your primary choice is unable or unwilling to serve.

    At DeCosimo Law, we work with our clients to carefully evaluate all potential candidates and help them select the most suitable person to carry out their wishes, whether that is a family member, a trusted friend, or a professional.

  • Yes, you can make changes to your trust or will after they are created. This is a common and necessary part of a proactive estate planning strategy. At DeCosimo Law, we have a specific policy on how we handle these updates to ensure your plan remains effective and protects you from potential legal issues.

    Amending a DeCosimo Law Trust

    If you are an existing client and your trust was originally drafted by our office, we will happily perform amendments for a minimal charge. We are already familiar with the structure, intent, and language of your documents, which makes the process of updating them straightforward and efficient. We keep detailed records, which allows us to quickly and accurately make the necessary changes without having to re-examine the entire document.

    Amending a Trust Drafted by Another Attorney

    If your trust was drafted by another law firm and is relatively new (less than three years old), we generally will not amend it. Instead, our policy is to restate the trust. A restatement replaces the entire original trust document with a new one that incorporates all of your desired changes. The cost of a restatement is typically similar to drafting a new trust.

    The reason for this policy is rooted in legal liability and the need to protect our clients. When we amend a document, we become legally liable for the entire trust, not just the changes we made. Every attorney has a unique drafting style and may include provisions that we might not. By restating the trust, we can ensure that every single provision is reviewed, compliant with current law, and accurately reflects your intentions. This eliminates any potential ambiguity or conflicts that could arise from an amendment and protects both you and our firm from future legal challenges.

  • Estate planning is not solely about minimizing taxes or preserving a large inheritance. It's primarily about control and peace of mind. Without an estate plan, you give up control to the state of California, which will apply a rigid set of rules that may not reflect your wishes.

    Why a "Small" Estate Still Needs a Plan

    1. Incapacity Planning: This is arguably the most crucial reason for anyone, regardless of their assets. What if you become incapacitated due to an accident or illness? An estate plan includes documents like a Durable Power of Attorney for Finances and an Advance Healthcare Directive. These documents allow you to appoint a trusted person to make financial and medical decisions for you, avoiding the need for a court-appointed conservatorship. Without these, your loved ones could face a public, expensive, and stressful court process to gain the legal authority to help you.

    2. Avoids Probate: While a small estate in California may qualify for a simplified probate process, it may still require court supervision, which can be time-consuming and expensive. A Revocable Living Trust or other tools can help you avoid probate altogether, allowing your heirs to receive their inheritance faster and privately.

    3. Ensures Your Wishes are Followed: Without a will or trust, California's intestacy laws will determine who inherits your property. This can be a problem even with a small estate. For example, you may want to leave a cherished sentimental item to a close friend, or you may want a specific person to receive a small financial account. Without a will, this property would be distributed to legal relatives, not necessarily the people you care about most.

    4. Provides for Minor Children: If you have minor children, a will is the only place you can legally nominate a guardian. Without a will, a court will make this critical decision, and the person chosen may not be who you would have wanted.

    In summary, an estate plan for a person with fewer assets focuses less on complex tax strategies and more on the foundational documents that protect you and your loved ones from the financial, legal, and emotional burdens of an unexpected event. It's about ensuring your voice is heard when you can't speak for yourself and that your wishes are honored, no matter the value of your assets.

  • A complete estate plan in California is a customized set of legal documents designed to protect you during your lifetime and ensure your wishes are carried out after you pass away. While the specific documents can vary depending on your situation, a comprehensive plan typically includes:

    1. Revocable Living Trust

    This is the cornerstone of most California estate plans, especially for those who own real estate or have significant assets. A revocable living trust is a legal entity that holds your assets for your benefit during your lifetime.

    • Primary Purpose: To avoid the time-consuming, expensive, and public process of probate.

    • Key Features: You maintain full control over your assets as the trustee while you are alive. The trust document names a successor trustee who will manage and distribute your assets according to your instructions after you die or if you become incapacitated.

    2. Pour-Over Will

    This document works in conjunction with a revocable living trust. A pour-over will is a "safety net" that directs any assets you may have forgotten to transfer into your trust to be "poured over" into the trust upon your death. It ensures all your property is eventually managed and distributed under the trust's terms. It is also the correct place to name a guardian for your minor children.

    3. Durable Power of Attorney for Finances

    This document grants a trusted person (your "agent") the legal authority to manage your financial affairs if you become incapacitated. This includes paying bills, managing bank accounts, filing taxes, and handling other financial responsibilities. It is "durable" because it remains in effect even after you lose capacity, preventing the need for a court-ordered conservatorship.

    4. Advance Healthcare Directive

    This is a critical document for your personal care. It typically combines two essential components:

    • Power of Attorney for Healthcare: This appoints a trusted person (your "agent") to make medical decisions on your behalf if you cannot.

    • Living Will: This outlines your wishes regarding medical treatments, such as life-sustaining care and end-of-life decisions. This document also typically includes a HIPAA authorization, which allows your agent to access your medical records and speak with your doctors.

    5. Other Important Elements

    In addition to the core documents, a complete estate plan may also include:

    • Trust Transfer Deed: The legal document used to transfer your real estate into your trust.

    • Certifications of Trust: A shortened version of your trust document used for transferring assets.

    • Beneficiary Designations: It is crucial to review and update beneficiary designations on assets that pass outside of a will or trust, such as life insurance policies and retirement accounts (e.g., 401(k)s and IRAs).

    • Asset List: While not a legal document, a comprehensive list of your assets, accounts, and login information is invaluable for your successor trustee.

    Together, these documents form a robust plan that ensures your family is protected, your assets are managed according to your wishes, and the difficult legal and financial decisions are made by people you trust.

  • It authorizes someone to manage your finances if you're incapacitated. 'Durable' means it stays in effect if you lose capacity.

    Example: If you're in an accident and unconscious, your agent can access bank accounts and pay bills on your behalf."

  • Without an estate plan, your family generally does not have an automatic right to access your medical or financial information if you become incapacitated. In California, strict privacy laws, such as HIPAA, protect your information. To gain access, a family member would likely need to be appointed by a court as a conservator, which is a complex, costly, and public process.

    Here's how an estate plan addresses this issue:

    Access to Medical Information and Decisions

    To give someone legal authority over your healthcare, you need an Advance Healthcare Directive. This single document has two parts:

    • Power of Attorney for Healthcare: This allows you to name a trusted person, your "agent," to make medical decisions on your behalf if you become unable to. This agent has the legal authority to communicate with doctors, review your medical records, and consent to or refuse treatments based on the instructions you provide.

    • Living Will: This section allows you to state your wishes regarding end-of-life care, such as whether you want life-sustaining treatments like a ventilator or feeding tubes. This gives your agent clear guidance on how to make decisions for you.

    Without this document, your family members have no legal authority to access your medical information or make decisions, and a court would have to appoint a conservator.

    Access to Financial Information and Decisions

    To give someone legal authority over your finances, you need a Durable Power of Attorney for Finances.

    • How it works: This document names an "agent" to handle your financial affairs if you become incapacitated. This agent can pay bills, manage investments, file tax returns, and handle other financial responsibilities on your behalf. "Durable" means the powers granted remain in effect even after you lose capacity.

    • Revocable Trust: A revocable living trust also serves this purpose. By naming a successor trustee in your trust document, you can ensure a seamless transition of authority over your trust-held assets without court intervention. The successor trustee can manage those assets, pay bills, and handle other financial duties if you become incapacitated.

    Without one of these legal documents, your family would have to petition the court for a conservatorship of the estate. This is a public court proceeding where a judge determines if you are incapacitated and appoints someone to manage your finances. This can be a very expensive and emotionally draining process for your loved ones.

  • No, at DeCosimo Law, we do not handle trust litigation. Our practice is dedicated exclusively to proactive, heartfelt estate planning for families.

    Our focus lies in helping clients create well-drafted, comprehensive estate plans that are designed to avoid disputes and family conflicts in the first place. We believe in getting to know our clients and their unique family dynamics to build a plan that truly reflects their values and goals. Our goal is to keep families out of court.